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So I had to have Bryan call her. I hated doing that to him since we were eating his favorite meal and everything but if I did it I would be still tossing her stuff out the upstairs window and tell her to never come back.

I still feel that way. Bryan just doesn't understand. He loves unconditionally - and I love that about him. But I am not that way. Once someone hurts me intentionally - I don't want anything more to do with them. Been that way since day one. Ask my former friends from high school. Once they pulled something, I was not friends with them again. Oh, I could be civil, but my circle is tight and they never got back in.

The Big B stated that she no longer is a (insert our last name here) and that she never was. The last 8 years were the worst of her life and that we could f'n kiss off.
OK fine.
Who am I to stop her from "growing" and "blossoming" into a mature, well-adjusted young woman. Sounds like she is well on her way to an unhappy marriage with a short, neanderthal-looking control freak.
Don't look for me at the wedding.
Shasta out